Street Pickup Tips

Before you study or learn any techniques or words

　　The first thing you should learn is

　　Dare to speak up

　　You rub your chest and say, how many of you have been slapped back by your own fear instead of being rejected by a girl when you hit on her? So, today, let’s let you loose and get over this fearful, anxious, negative emotion that does not contribute to flirting with girls.

　　So, why do you get scared to pick up a girl?

　　Anxiety from fear of failure

　　“How humiliating it would be to be rejected!”

　　Tell me the truth, is that what you think? Or ever thought that? Usually, before you even go up to talk to a girl, you’ve already made up 10,000 scenarios of being rejected in your own little theater of the mind, and you have to find out 10,000 things to say after you’ve been rejected, just in case you lose face. Don’t you think you’re tired? By the time you figure out the perfect way to do it, the girl will be long gone home, okay!

　　“What if she doesn’t like me?”

　　Luckily, you’ve succeeded in striking up a conversation and the girl has exchanged contact information with you, yet you’re getting anxious again. What if the chatting girl thinks I don’t match what she remembered or imagined in her imagination? Such thoughts are likely to arise due to doubts about self-worth, that the other party is unlikely to agree with their own practices, ideas.

　　Gradually, the psychological reasons behind these two thoughts are coiled inside you for a long time. Whenever you want to go and strike up a conversation with a girl, they will team up and prevent you from presenting yourself to the girl comfortably.

　　Some of the universal use of the opening line, before there has been a list, not to say more, just to teach you a small conversation, if you do not know how to open or ask for contact information, you can try this method:

　　-You: “Hi, can I take a quiz with you? I bet you won’t give me your contact info, am I right?” (The chances of a stranger giving you his contact info are slim to none.)

　　-Girl: “You’re right.”

　　-You: “How can you guess so well?”

　　Immediately after, hurry and girl to explain the reason, with a common opening introduction is no problem at all, this little joke opening can always dissolve part of your tension it!

　　There was a survey

Street pickup classic: pickup opening the first sentence to learn up!

　　Just use a very common opening line

　　“Hi, my name is XXX. sorry to bother you, I just wanted to tell you that I’ve been watching you and I think you’re a really attractive person.”

　　Next, strike up a conversation with a different person using three types of invitations

　　“Would you like to go out with me tonight? Or do you have time on the weekend?”

　　“Would you like to come over to where I live tonight? Or are you free on the weekend?”

　　“Would you like to sleep with me tonight? Or how about the weekend?”

　　In addition to those who had a boyfriend or girlfriend, 68% of men and 43% of women said yes to the invitation; next, 40% of men and 21% of women said yes to the invitation to “stay”; and finally, 59% of men said yes to the invitation to “sleep together”. Lastly, 59% of men agreed to “sleep together”.

　　Aren’t the statistics amazing? So, it’s not as hard as you think. If you ask a girl for a date, the success rate is 40%, and if you don’t ask, it’s only 0%.

　　There will indeed be a chance of rejection

　　Anyone who proposes a date to an acquaintance can fail because of time, work, etc., let alone proposing an offer to a stranger. So getting rejected is normal and it’s not your problem, what you need to recognize is – don’t doubt and deny your self because of the rejection.

　　Because the reason why a girl rejects you is not that complicated, it could simply be because:

　　The eye did not meet

　　You are not very suitable for each other, early rejection is good for both of you

　　Really do not have time